Beyond the Basics- Advanced BDSM Tools and Techniques
There are various erotic methods to explore in a sexual relationship. You can switch from your usual missionary to tantric sex. Exciting and different sexual experiences focused on control and power are what the BDSM community is known for if you’re eager to explore a new world of pleasure.
Quite a number of things about life are misunderstood, such as BDSM. Many times, the act of having sex is thought of as being extremely kinky, mentally or physically destructive, or something only victims of abuse enjoy. However, BDSM enthusiasts and newbies must realize that it’s not any of these things in any way.
Props are normally used in the act, but they aren’t introduced immediately. Rather, as an enthusiast, you should proceed cautiously until you discover what BDSM means for your partner or partners because following someone else’s strategies might not always work for you.
What are the BDSM Tools I Should Know?
Irrespective of your level of experience in BDSM sex, here is a list of some bondage tools you should know:
- Blindfolds
- Collars and chokers (Posture collars)
- Hoods (Bondage hoods, Puppy hoods, and Isolation hoods)
- Gags (Ball gags and Mouth spreaders)
- Impact Toys (Floggers, Paddles, and Canes Whips)
- Clamps (Nipple clamps, Genital clamps, and Nose clamps)
- Restraints (Rope, Binders, Bondage tape, and Shackles)
- Yokes
- Spreader bars
- Anal hooks
- Chastity Toys (Chastity belts and Chastity cages)
- Electric wands
- Urethral Toys (Urethral sounds and Urethral plugs)
Some BDSM Techniques You Should Consider
Note that these techniques are somewhat extreme and partners are free to change their minds at will about any position they’re not comfortable with. Find a list of advanced but common bondage techniques:
Biting
This is one of the most common acts in kink scenes. It is quite simple to try with your partner(s). Who doesn’t enjoy a tiny bite behind the ears? But in BDSM, biting usually involves more than just nibbling and may result in bite marks.
Caning
Caning is a type of impact play when a stick or cane—typically made of rattan—is used. It is commonly used on the butts. So, if you’re playing a school scene, where a teacher and a student are usually involved, caning shouldn’t be left out.
Cock and ball torture
Most men shudder at the thought of CBT, which is the acronym for cock and ball torture. Yet, you might be surprised to learn that CBT is more common in the BDSM community. This kink technique plays on masochism, the need to be dominated and pleased, and erotic humiliation.
You can bust balls (not literarily) in diverse ways. Grabbing, trampling, kneeling, and other BDSM acts, including sound, temperature, wax, and electrostimulation, are other advanced techniques to explore.
Although a rope is the primary method used in breast bondage, other options include webbing, bondage tape, straps, and bondage harness. Breast bondage, however, can be combined with other methods that limit the subject’s range of motion and serve as anchors for additional bondage acts, such as breast torture and crotch rope. It can be used as both an artistic kink and a statement of dominance and submission.
Chastity
In BDSM, chastity is limiting one’s sexual pleasure with the use of tools like cages or belts. It can increase sexual tension and frequently results in a power struggle between the dom and sub. Its makeup frequently rests on the expectation of release and giving up of power.
Wait! There’s More!
As long as everybody participating gives their consent and is conscious of the risks, kink and bondage tools could be an excellent addition to an individual’s sexual toolkit. They don’t necessarily appeal to everyone in the same manner and vibes; therefore, it’s okay if you or other participants are content to limit your exploration of pain and pleasure.
